One evening, my neighbour came to me to pay the fence made by my husband. She just on her bike, and did't want to get off it.

"Katuran, bude monggo pinarak." I called bude.

"Nang kene wae, cuma sebentar kok. Bapak ada?"

"Dereng kondur. Ada perlu apa, bude?"

"Ini mau bayar uang pagar kemarin."

"Oo..inggih..titip kulo mawon, monggo."

"Walah.. ga usah wes... ngko ae ta kesini lagi kalo bapak sudah rawuh." She answered then starting her bike. She went on.

I am a consumtive woman, may be. Everyone knows it. I ever buy something that I like by my own money. I never spend my husband's money. I just buy thing when I have much money. I know what I do. I know how much money I spend for. Not much. I am still an "amanah wife".

They judge me by what they see about me. Never know what I do. Just let them go...